“If anyone speaks, he should do it as one speaking the very words of God.”
1 Peter 4:11
Lorraine desires first to listen to God—to hear His heart—then to deliver that message to His bride. Her talks, based on God’s Word, are peppered with passion, humor, and practical application. She speaks to women of all ages and denominations—from small groups to stadiums filled with thousands. Most sessions are about an hour in length and can be combined under a common theme for women’s retreat (3 or 4 sessions). Her talks tend to group into three categories; intimacy with God, sexual intimacy, and encouragement for mothers of young children.
Intimacy With God
Does God Care About American Idol?
Idolatry is the most frequently discussed subject in the Old Testament, but is idolatry an issue today? In this urgent and relevant message, Lorraine explains why it is imperative that we address the issue of who and what we worship. (Teaching based on 2 Kings 22-23, the life of king Josiah)
God, I Can’t Hear You . . .
Do you sometimes feel your prayers fall on deaf ears? Have you prayed repeatedly for something only to be disappointed again by God’s silence? This thought provoking message deals with tough questions like: Why doesn’t God do things the way I want Him to? and What do you do when you feel like you are stuck in God’s waiting room? (Teaching based on Luke 2:21-38, the story of Simeon)
Intimacy with your Heavenly Bridegroom
Hold on to your seats as Lorraine shares Scripture and excerpts from two books that may shake you up a
bit about the realities of heaven and hell. But those who have a personal relationship with Jesus need not fear hell; instead, because of the certain hope we profess, we can live life purposefully, passionately, and with eager anticipation of spending eternity with Jesus.
Freedom through Forgiveness
Learning to extend and receive forgiveness is the framework for this talk. Includes a forgiveness test, a forgiveness challenge, and how it is possible to move beyond forgiveness to extend a blessing to the one who has hurt or betrayed you.
Living the Abundant Life
Oswald Chambers writes: “There is NO condition in which we cannot abide.” But how is it possible to remain at peace when your world falls apart? Or to rest in God when His current plan of action makes no sense to you? Lorraine shares wisdom from her favorite authors/mentors and gives examples from her own life about the struggle of abiding in Christ. She warns that prolonged abiding may result in such joy and inner peace that others may find you annoying! (John 15:1-11.)
Dancing in the Arms of God
As your Bridegroom, Jesus will dance with you in heaven at the marriage supper, but He also wants to dance with you here on earth. Lorraine explains the different “seasons” of the dance, as well as the need to “learn the steps” and respond to His lead. The story of Cinderella’s fear of dancing with the prince at the ball is used to teach women to openly embrace the Prince of Peace.
Jesus: the Most Important Thing
Jesus may be your Savior, but is He your Lord? Have you surrendered everything to Him? If not, why? This message challenges women to consider any area of their life in which they have been holding back from God and to surrender all to Him. Includes “Five Reasons to Fall in Love with Jesus” and Lorraine’s personal testimony.
Sexuality Intimacy
What’s the Big Deal about Sex?
Why must every TV show, newspaper and magazine go on and on about sex? Why are many of life’s most painful situations connected with sex? Why have sexual morals eroded so quickly in recent years? Lorraine offers thought provoking insights and explains why the battle over sex in our culture will likely only intensify in the coming years. Understanding God’s perspective of sex will better equip you to live in our sex saturated society.
How Do I get Over the Guilt of My Past?
Many women cannot enjoy sex with their husbands because they are constrained by chains of guilt from their past. Lorraine shares openly about her past, the pain and failure, and how God’s Word and Spirit set her free. Teaching based on Luke 7:36-48
How Can I Recapture the Passion?
What do you do when sex with your husband has become ho-hum, or you have no desire at all? How can I return to the joy of “first love” with my husband? In this talk, Lorraine helps women examine their attitudes and actions, then offers suggestions for how to put the sizzle back in sex.
Do Sexuality and Spirituality Go Together?
Lorraine shares why women tend to separate their sexuality and their spirituality and explains from Scripture how God meant the two to be intertwined. She also answers the question, “How can I be godly and sensuous…or am I even suppose to be that?” God’s wisdom for wives taken from the Song of Solomon will likely surprise and amaze you!
MOPS Talks (Mothers of Pre-schoolers)
God Help Me in the Midst of My Mess
Are you frustrated by the endless nose-wiping, floor-sweeping, diaper-changing duties of being a mom? Do you long to escape your mundane chores and, instead, do important work for God? Lorraine offers practical help on managing the messes in your home and the messes in your heart, and shows why being a mom is one of God’s most high and noble callings.
Five Simple Truths for a Terrific Marriage
Marriage issues are often complex, but simple solutions can be found if women understand how to apply to their marriage the same principles they teach their kids:
· Hold hands when you cross the street
· Don’t talk with your mouth full
· Share
· Pay attention
· Say your prayers
How Do I Make Love With Kids Wrapped Around My Knees?
Based on her surveys of over 1,500 women, Lorraine answers frankly, humorously and biblically the five most frequently asked questions about sex by moms with young children. This talk will cause you to laugh, challenge you to think, and inspire you to be the wife and lover to your husband that God wants you to be.
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